I recently experienced a string of minor misfortunes while out
on a shopping trip.There was a time when such incidents would have been very jarring but not any more; I was not affected at all. I even tried to mentally bring some positivity into the atmosphere.
The first incident happened when the bus I was on swept past a
bus stop without stopping. A woman who had wanted to get off there became very
angry, all the more because the next stop was a fair distance away so she had a
long walk back. She swore at the driver. He said that she should have rung the bell; she insisted that she had rung it. She seemed a bit disturbed and disconnected,
and her voice had a strange, unpleasant tone.
The next incident took place in a small supermarket. A
woman left her queue to go back and get some item she had forgotten. She took
her time, leaving a lot of people waiting. Someone mentioned this, quite
politely, to her when she came back – without apologising for the delay - and
she took offence and got into an argument with him. Staff had to intervene.
When I was on the bus on the return journey, there was
trouble involving a man in a wheelchair who wanted to get off and a passenger
who intervened on his behalf. The driver closed the doors to let the ramp down,
but she jumped to the wrong conclusion and thought that he was going to move on
without letting the man off. She shouted for him to stop.
It was just a misunderstanding, but the bus driver got annoyed and said, "I'm not blind!" She got annoyed and said there was no need for him to be so rude. As she got off a few stops later, she told the driver that he should not have spoken like that to someone who was just trying to help.
Soon after that, the bus made a sudden, violent swerve and I was thrown forwards.
It was just a misunderstanding, but the bus driver got annoyed and said, "I'm not blind!" She got annoyed and said there was no need for him to be so rude. As she got off a few stops later, she told the driver that he should not have spoken like that to someone who was just trying to help.
Soon after that, the bus made a sudden, violent swerve and I was thrown forwards.
A young tourist asked me if she was on the right bus. I
tried to help, but it seemed that her English wasn’t good enough for her to
understand what I said, despite all my efforts. This was frustrating. I showed
her a stop where she could change to a better bus; she produced a map and other
papers and said that she knew where she was; I realised that she didn’t really
need any help after all. She seemed rather vague. A very minor incident indeed,
but I suspect that it was part of the string.